Kathy Gates 
Certified Emotional Intelligence Life Coach 

 "I see opportunities"

Scottsdale, AZ 85261 
Tel: 480.998.5843    Email:  kathy@reallifecoach.com

REAL LIFE SUCCESS STORIES

D.L., Retail Sales, Austin, TX, says….
"I had no direction, no joy, and I often felt used by other people.   I’ll be the first to admit that I never expected such results as I’ve seen in my own life.  It took work on my part every week, and sometimes it took a while for me to see the change.  But when I look back and see where I was, and where I am now, it’s just a wonderful experience.   Other people now tell me that they see a difference in me.  I feel like I know my place in this world better, I feel like I have choices, and I feel that I now have a clearer direction in which I am headed instead of just bouncing from this to that. "

P.F., housewife, Denver CO says...
"Hi Kathy, thank you so very much for such a valuable an  inspirational message.  I know that you are truly heaven sent!!  You have enlightened my thoughts beyond belief. ... I am doing my spiritual homework and I see that the Universe is still allowing wonderful beings as yourself to enlightened my spiritual path.  Thank you so very much.  Love and Light to you."  

D.D., sales rep., Birmingham AL says...
"Kathy:  I love this program!  It's simple and straight forward, and things I can actually DO.  Thanks so much.   Happiness always."    

A.F., accountant, San Francisco CA  says...
"I didn't know what to expect with coaching, but I know I needed someone to help me stay focused.  Each week I got stronger, and more proud of what I was doing.  Coaching rocks!  Thanks, Kathy" 

D.C., Business Owner, Phoenix AZ, says....
"You taught me one of the keys to motivating myself is understanding what I really value and setting goals so that I'm being pulled towards those values instead of constantly pushing myself with 'shoulds."  You weren't afraid to confront me and help me realize when I was making excuses and not really trying.You encouraged me and helped me realize I was making progress even though I didn't feel like it.  I also think you have the right idea of being a coach by maintaining a balance of  both encouraging and confronting". 

A.G., Stay-At-Home Dad, Glendale, AZ says….
I had never heard of a Life Coach until I saw one of your advertisements. I was probably the biggest skeptic you'll ever have!  But you helped me see what was truly important to me, and we then worked on career choices from that angle. 

E.B, consultant, NY says…
Kathy is a great listener.  She was able to hear things that I said that I didn’t even know I said.  She didn’t try to give me the answers to my problems, but she helped me hear my own answers.  She taught me how to stop and SAY exactly what I was feeling.  By doing that, I am now able to step back and see my own solutions. 

B.B., Sales, San Francisco, CA says…
I've read every book on the subject of self-help, but I just couldn’t seem to apply it in my everyday life.  You helped me see that I needed to stop thinking about what I wanted to do and just do it, step by step, slowly, deliberately.  I had a lot of intention, but I now turn that intention into action. 

C.D., manager, San Diego CA says....
"As crazy as it sounds, finding out that I'm using my own needs as an excuse instead of finding healthy ways to get fulfilled is the most freeing thing I've ever done.   I also find a very interesting  by-product of learning to take care of myself again -- (my husband) seems interested in me again! "

H.J., coordinator, film director/producer, Chapel Hill, NC says...
"Hi Kathy.  I really get it.  The point isn't that you are never rattled, but that you self-correct and get yourself back to center.  In fact, what knocks you off becomes interesting and an avenue for inquiry." 

C.T.R., architect student, Austin, TX says...
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Thank you for your support.  It is really helping me.  I had no idea what to expect from "e-mail coaching", and was a bit reluctant to try it, but I must tell you that so far you have exceeded my expectations, and I am so glad that I took the step of contacting you.  Keep up the good work.  :-)" 

J.B., office manager, Palm Beach, FL says...
"I  am truly excited about where I KNOW I am headed.  I know I'll have lumps and bumps along the road, but I know that I have a destination.  I am expecting great things.  I look forward to working with you again soon.  Thank you sooooooooo much.  I am amazed at the difference in my life today, and the day that I called you."  

T.L., radio administrator, New Castle, NY...
"Just like to say thanks for the e-zine which drops into my box no matter where in the world I am and usually makes me stop for a moment and at least think about reconnecting with myself and my life."   

CSB, web designer, Boone, NC says....
Hi.  I just wanted you to know that your last newsletter was great and accurate.  Your "stop reading, start doing" applies to me.  I read many self help books but somehow never follow through with the book's advice.  My family tells me the same thing as you said, "stop reading all those books and just do it now.  You could be doing something useful instead of wasting all that time reading."  I enjoy your newsletters and look forward to them.  

What's YOUR SUCCESS STORY?