Kathy
Gates, Certified Emotional Intelligence Life Coach
P O Box 5612 Scottsdale, AZ 85261-5612 Tel: 480.998.5843
Email: kathy@reallifecoach.com
EXCERPT from Chapter 1 of Ebook 
Get Real
Who Am I?
"In our daily lives, we must see that it is not
happiness
that makes us grateful, but the
gratefulness that makes us
happy." -- Albert Clarke
When
you satisfy your own soul, you begin to accept your own highs and lows, and you
come to understand that you’re not perfect, and neither are the other people
in your life.
Acceptance
of this is part of being happy (it falls right in with gratitude and optimism
below).
Accepting
your downfalls, and taking responsibility
for how they hold you back, as well as how they affect those you care about
gives you power to handle it in a different way.
A Basic Sense of Happiness comes from
S-E-L-F -- acceptance, regulation, and awareness.
Knowledge
is powerful. And choosing to act on that knowledge to make the changes that you want
in your life is even more powerful.
This is value-based happiness, happiness that is a
by product from living a life that makes sense to you, that feeds your soul,
that is in touch with your heart, your personality, your traits, your nature.
WHO YOU ARE determines what will make
you happy.
While I
might like a small town with a lot of land around my house which is furnished in
southern country style where I cook big meals and have friends and family
dropping by at any old time… you might shudder to even think about it.
Perhaps you’d prefer to live on the 23rd
floor of a high-rise furnished in ultra modern and your idea of making dinner is
calling for reservations.
To each his own. This is not the Brady
Bunch. There is no right or wrong
answer. There IS a Right Answer for
YOU!
A basic sense of happiness
comes from knowing who you are, being comfortable in your own skin, and
with your own attributes.
(the
previous is an EXCERPT from Chapter 1 of Ebook)
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Not what I imagined. It's making me think in ways I never thought I
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wanted you to know it's helped. TY so much."
HS from North Carolina says, "Well
beating myself up everyday sure wasn't working - BTDT. :) My daughter and I are
loving this!"
Frank
M. says...Hi Kathy, I just wanted to say "thank you" for
the good advice and for enlightening me on some key issues. I have found
that making the decision to act is the most difficult part of all. But
if I don't take responsibility for creating my own future, then I have
to suffer what life gives me. I have decided that I will never let that
happen. All the best.
"Follow
the program, it works. Simple as that."
PR, Boca Raton FL
MP from New York says, "JTLYK,
Kathy, I'm still on lesson 1, but I think that's where I need to be right
now. If the rest of the lessons are as powerful as this one -- OMG! grins."
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